Be ourselves

Be ourselves

If we are an Artist, don’t try to be a Scientist and vice versa. It is very important to know ourselves, knowing our own strengths and leveraging on them will be much more effective rather than trying hard to work on something which is not our strength, interest and even our cup of tea.

No doubt, we must be a situational leader where we shall be flexible and resilient to bend and stretch to cope with situations. If given a choice, we shall focus in developing our strengths rather than our gaps. Of course, if a gap hinders us to be successful in our ultimate goal, yes, we shall do something about it. Only spend time and effort to work on gap that brings a great return, otherwise, you may prioritize and forget about it.

I believe in being myself, I have no intention to change my values in order to survive. Some good values inside us are not supposed to be changed, that’s called principle.  No doubt, we gotta be wiser when we learn and journey through experience in life.

Finally, we shall be an influencer instead of being influenced and conform to the standard of the world. Why not the world conforms to us instead? We have a choice.

Thank you for your faithfulness

It has been a long long time. I have been trying to revive my dry bone but have not been able to do so despite multiple attempts , first time experienced the reconnection with God after a call from beloved uncle Stephen and auntie Sue this morning, they are really great people of God with a kind spirit and a loving heart who never give up on me for a decade.

The incident they shared with me on what had happened to a friend a while ago startled me, I grieved and wept but at the same time the sense of priority of life comes to me.

Thank you uncle Stephen and auntie Sue, may the Lord bless you with great health and long life, so that many will be benefited from your love.

Dear Lord, please forgive me, have mercy on me and grant me your strength to lay my burdens before you and look to you for direction. For I knew it well that "Unless the Lord builds the house, they labour in vain who build it" (psalm 127:1)

Thank you for your faithfulness and the comfort you have sent through uncle Stephen and auntie Sue "I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with my eye." (Psalm 32:8)".

Sign off with a comforted heart and a consoled spirit. Amen ♥️♥️♥️

Alive

My birthday inspiration.

Real Love

An uaffectionate woman

The one who cares and took care of my well being genuinely is a woman called mother.

She is the only one in the whole wide world who loves and cares for me genuinely, unconditionally, I never go hungry when mum is around.

Mum is not an affectionate person and I don't remember a single kiss or hug from her, somehow her loves speak so loudly through her genuine act of cares for me.

It's a shame to only realised this in my 40's, mum, I cherish and thankful for your loves and cares.

Thank you mum.

Fear Not

Drawing Therapy

Relationship

What's so great about you?
What's so great about me?
What's so great about love?
Whats so great about life?

What's so important about emotions?
What's so important about feelings?
What's so important about love?
What's so important about social acceptance?

Do I really need the people around me?
Do the people around me really need me?
Do I need to persist on in the status quo?
Do I really need to be who I am?

Who am I?
Who are you?
Who am I to you?
Who are you to me?

What am I doing?
What are you doing?
What are we doing
What should we be doing?

Am I alright?

Am I insane?

Am I loved?

Am I hated? 

Am I thinking too much?

Am I working too hard?

Am I asking too much?

Am I getting too greedy?

We were strangers
We become lovers
We become spouses
We become best friends

We become siblings
We become aquintances
We become stranger
Hope we don't become enemies

There is a time for everything in every season
Therefore do the right thing at the right timing
Think carefully and be determined when the time comes